I had always planned to spend some “slow time” along the coast of Southern Turkey… I had expected to be here a month sooner than I actually arrived, but various delays during my crossing through Africa, and additional days spent in great company along the way in both Africa and Europe, saw me cross into Asia in October rather than September…
After nearly 8 months on the road, I must admit that I feel a little jaded… Subtle changes in the way I am looking at life around me have crept in… I have begun interacting less and less with the people I come into contact with; riding past places that a month ago I would have stopped and visited…
Perhaps it has been the change in the weather… Dark skies and endless rain definitely have an adverse effect on my mood, a reason why I would rather have my eyes put out than ever live here in Europe… There are just not enough days of endless blue skies, something we take for granted in Southern Africa…
Not being able to experience the turquoise blue waters that adorn every postcard and brochure on Croatia and Turkey have also been a major disappointment… I wonder how well tourism here would do if they brought out brochures and travelogues that only feature flat grey seas, drizzle and cloudy skies…?
Riding a bike around the world and trying to be “where the sun always shines” is impossible of course, and I accept this, but it doesn’t mean I have to like it…!! Still, I have tried to remain positive and still look forward to riding to new destinations…
I am also trying to shrug off a few physical niggles that have developed over the last few weeks… My left knee, which I twisted in Istanbul, still bothers me at times, and I now also have a hassle with my right elbow…!!
I’m falling apart at the joints…!!
After leaving Sarimsakli, south of Ayvalik, I rode along the coast, mulling over all the great information I had received about places to visit en route to Marmaris… There were the ruins of Pergamon, with its Acropolis and Temple of Dionysus; a scant 9 km off my chosen route east of Bergama; the coastal villages of Ephedos and Kusadas; the Church of Mother Mary in Selkuk… The owner of the Megas Hotel had very kindly taken the time to describe the various archeological sites, and provided me with a map where he highlighted the places I should stop and see…
But the combination of rain and the six hour ride I knew to be ahead of me, made me decide to skip all of the above… After barely an hour on the road, I wanted to be off the bike and sitting in a dry room somewhere…!! I had arranged to meet Willi in Marmaris later that day, and he was riding back there from Fetiye to see me again, so I had no choice but to put my head down and ride…
It rained for most of the 425 kms I covered that day, and after my arrival, it took a while before I was able to relax and enjoy the sights and sounds of Marmaris… Willi and I spent two days together there, riding down to the harbour area and enjoying the good food on offer at a few of the waterfront restaurants… I went for a few long early morning walks on my own, thinking about the changes that I felt coming over me…
The thought of heading off into Asia, and effectively back into the long lonely days of difficult riding was not filling me with the excitement that I had expected it would… There were suddenly too many arrangements to make, too many little hassles that in Africa, I had taken in my stride… Now, I was struggling to make decisions, and that in itself was an annoyance that I found difficult to deal with…
Europe had made me “soft” I think… I had crossed 38 borders and hardly ever had to present even a passport, let alone reams of paper to get the Big Fella legally registered to ride in any particular country, but now, and all to sudden it seemed, I had to worry about visas again, Carnets, my riding gear, tyres, services… It all hit me like a wave, and I was mentally unprepared for it…
Willi’s continued suggestions that I change my route and head for South America instead, did not help matters…!! Even though his advice was sound enough, it did not fit into the plans I had made before I left South Africa… And I stubbornly wanted to stick to those plans…
On the way down the coast, on the steep and winding entry to Marmaris, I had decided that it was time to change my front brakes… On a particularly sharp corner, I thought I felt them “let go” a bit, and that was a feeling that I did not want to experience too often…!! I was advised to visit Best Motors in the main street of the town and there met the owner Yilmaz, who at a very reasonable price had his mechanic replace my worn brakes with the new set that I had been carrying all the way from South Africa…
I still cannot understand how my brakes have lasted this long…!! Over 64 000 kms on one set of front brakes…!! I think that will take some beating…!! My rear brakes had taken me over 56 000 kms…!!
After two days, Willi and I parted ways, he to ride further along the coast to find a ferry to take him and his bike to Cyprus, and I to meet with Simon and Monika Newbound, holders of the World Endurance Record for Continuous Riding…
I wanted to take advantage of the fact that we were both in Turkey at the same time, and accepted Monika’s suggestion to rendezvous with them in Fetiye, with alacrity…
Our few days spent together were my most relaxing so far here in Turkey… We chatted about their amazing feat, traveling over 189 000 kms to smash the world record, crossing Europe and Asia from Dublin to Japan, and riding across North America, from coast to coast, five times during their ride…
You can read all about the Newbound’s on their website www.bmwunstoppable.com
Prior to leaving in 2002, Monika had to learn how to ride a bike, as she had never ridden one before…!! The determination and positive attitude that this couple exudes is truly inspiring…!! Their “never say die” attitude, and motto of “Never Give Up”, went a long way to hardening my own resolve to succeed…
We spent our days together visiting the local hangouts and meeting and making friends; took a trip into Fetiye to see the rock tombs above the town; and sat in the middle of a busy market and ate pancakes while we watched the locals going about their daily business…
Simon arranged for an interview with the local newspaper, the Aegean, and its owner and editor, David Davies spent an evening with us, chatting about our journeys and making notes for an article he planned to write…
Then it was back to Marmaris, where I planned to park the Big Fella, while I flew back to Istanbul to arrange for my Indian visa, and to enquire about flying my bike out of Turkey…
More about reasons for that in my next posting…
©GBWT 2010


















Great to hear from you again – had us all a little concerned 🙂
Ronnie, “if all else fails, consult the manual.” I know you have heard those words a thousand times, but today, I am not talking about the TV remote. The manual of life has, in its very first chapter, Genesis, a very wise man called God who said that He created man … and realised that he needed to be a relational being, so He created man a partner. Remember ther story 🙂 ?
Now, I am not saying you need to go out and find a partner but what I am suggesting is that as you found yourself withdrawing from the locals and bypassing all those amazing sights, so your need to be relational was not being met and you have become a bit withdrawn, maybe even depressed.
Time frames are made to be adjusted. Enjoy every opportunity and speak to everyone as if they are the most important person at that moment. You will be amazed at the transforming power of affirmation. People respond to you in reflection of your treatment of them, so …
have fun my friend and enjoy everyone and everywhere.
Mini-sermon over. Ride safely and keep us posted.
We think it’s about time you “took some time out”. You need to chill for a week or two and get your strength back and sort out your ailments. They will only get worse if you don’t seek some medical help. A jab or two could work wonders for the pains in your knee and elbow. We can understand your frustrations with the weather, but you will get through those countries as you always do….and have fun at the same time. We wish you good luck with the visa for India and hope that you can find a decent airline to fly you and big fella out of there.
We love and miss you
Mom, Dad and me
Oh OK!!! So you are human, imagine that….Everybody needs a break now and again and more than that – you deserve a break!!! You can always fly home for a week or two….. the sun, family and friends could be just the medicine you need!!! Simon and Monika have each other and an amazing story… you have an amazing story and BIG fella!!!!!!!
Take time to smell the roses (or coffee, I’m sure is more apt in Turkey), this is a once in a lifetime trip, don’t make it a lifetime burden.
At least you are still smiling in your photos……
Good luck with all!!!!!
BIG kisses
K
Hi Ronnie
Shi$%#T ,you had me worried. I follow you every day on the net and with the help of mapsource.When I look you were back in Istanbul and there is no update I was very worried that something major went wrong. Glad to read your update and I understand the loneliness as I was there also. Take a good rest ,sort out all the hiccups of the trip ,and just know we may not be there in flesh but in soul all the way. Take care my friend
Hi Ron… Just bear in mind my angel that although you feel alone where you are…. you are actually NOT, you have all of us following you, so when in doubt, let this be a reminder to you that you are not secluded from the people that are following your every move or the people that love you, in fact (WE) here are the ones that are lonely and are living YOUR experience through the PC. So what does that tell you my friend, we are the ones with dreams but you are living them.
Have fun and know that the time will come when you will be back to OUR reality and hence live and breath your desired dreams as you wish. Sending you tons of African hugs and kisses…
PS… The African skies (you so aptly mention in your blog) will still be here waiting for YOU just like all of us. Take care and look after your health. Love you lots xxxx (Kobus and Lee)